Post by account_disabled on Mar 12, 2024 4:52:03 GMT -5
As it happens to me, it happens to everyone. Sometimes I get alerted that someone is speaking badly about me or what I say. Very often they are people I don't know or people with whom I have a weak bond, such as a simple "friendship" on Facebook. It's not a problem at all. As I have often repeated in recent years, the number of people who know you increases and with them the number of those who don't like you grows proportionately. It is physiological, right and natural. It also happens, when talking with a colleague, that he begins to talk, in very critical tones, about this or that professional, warning me not to give him credit and even not to like his posts. The natural propensity to form a group is in the nature of every man.
Abraham Maslow described it well in his pyramid of needs . After the human India Mobile Number Data being has satisfied his primary needs, such as food and shelter, secondly, he seeks the group and the sense of belonging to something. It therefore happens that factions of any kind arise, professional, sporting, political and so on. Feeling like you belong to something reinforces security in your ideas and acceptance of a group. These reflections, of simple rotogravure psychology, have always led me to think about how to dismantle habits that are not good for my Personal Branding . If there are no real reasons, is it good to have an enemy? An idea to counter? Or a group to fit into at all costs? Given the perfect uselessness of belonging to something vague or senseless, such as a professional ideology, creating enemies over it and approaching a group that promotes the detachment and exclusion of other colleagues, I decided, years ago, to don't fall into this trap.
The student Tse Kung asked: Is there a word that can be the norm for a whole life? The master replied: This word is 'reciprocity'. That is, don't behave towards others as you don't want others to behave towards you." Confucius told his student that positive reciprocity undermines negative reciprocity. Showing the other cheek and not taking it out on those who are hostile is a revolutionary act. An act that makes you morally stronger and even those who look at you feel this strength of yours. Do it for yourself. It is not a positioning or marketing strategy; it serves to make you more confident and in harmony with the world. If you want to convert someone to your cause, first of all show him that you are sincerely his friend – A.
Abraham Maslow described it well in his pyramid of needs . After the human India Mobile Number Data being has satisfied his primary needs, such as food and shelter, secondly, he seeks the group and the sense of belonging to something. It therefore happens that factions of any kind arise, professional, sporting, political and so on. Feeling like you belong to something reinforces security in your ideas and acceptance of a group. These reflections, of simple rotogravure psychology, have always led me to think about how to dismantle habits that are not good for my Personal Branding . If there are no real reasons, is it good to have an enemy? An idea to counter? Or a group to fit into at all costs? Given the perfect uselessness of belonging to something vague or senseless, such as a professional ideology, creating enemies over it and approaching a group that promotes the detachment and exclusion of other colleagues, I decided, years ago, to don't fall into this trap.
The student Tse Kung asked: Is there a word that can be the norm for a whole life? The master replied: This word is 'reciprocity'. That is, don't behave towards others as you don't want others to behave towards you." Confucius told his student that positive reciprocity undermines negative reciprocity. Showing the other cheek and not taking it out on those who are hostile is a revolutionary act. An act that makes you morally stronger and even those who look at you feel this strength of yours. Do it for yourself. It is not a positioning or marketing strategy; it serves to make you more confident and in harmony with the world. If you want to convert someone to your cause, first of all show him that you are sincerely his friend – A.